Traveling with a loved one who has dementia can seem daunting, but with some preparation and planning, you can make trips easier and more enjoyable for both of you. Here are some tips for traveling smoothly with a spouse who has dementia.
Plan Ahead
Advance planning is key when traveling with dementia. Here are some things to think about:
- Consult with your spouse’s doctor – Make sure your spouse is medically stable for travel and get advice on managing medications while away. Ask about any accommodations or medical equipment you may need.
- Pick familiar destinations – Stick to places your spouse knows well or has positive memories of. New environments can cause confusion.
- Keep it simple – Limit the number of places you’ll visit and build in plenty of downtime. Don’t overschedule activities.
- Scout accessibility – If you will be flying or staying in hotels, check for handicap accessible bathrooms, elevators, etc.
In addition, check out assistance options for long distance travel, such as long distance transport for people who need additional medical support on flights. A flight nurse can travel with you and your spouse, providing extra support throughout the journey.
Pack Properly
Careful packing will help you handle any situation on the road. Be sure to bring:
- Medications – Pack at least a week’s extra supply in case of delays. Keep meds in carry-on luggage.
- Medical documents – Have info on medical conditions, doctors, medications, and emergency contacts.
- Comfort items – Pack familiar objects like photos or a favorite blanket to ease anxiety.
- Activities – Bring items to keep your spouse engaged like puzzles, music, or books. A portable DVD player with favorite movies can help during long drives.
Navigate Travel Days
The actual travel can be challenging. Make it easier by:
- Requesting wheelchair assistance or early boarding at airports so you can get settled with less rushing.
- Scheduling nonstop flights or those with short layovers to minimize confusion.
- Using headphones or earplugs to dampen loud noises that could upset your spouse.
- Checking in early at hotels and requesting accessible, quiet rooms away from elevators/ice machines.
- Packing snacks, water, and activities in case of delays. Stick to familiar, easy-to-eat foods.
Stay Safe on the Road
Build in safety measures to keep your spouse secure:
- Have your spouse wear a medical ID bracelet with their condition and contact info in case you get separated.
- Use a GPS or maps app on your phone so you can reroute if your spouse gets disoriented. Apps like Find My Friends allow you to share real time locations.
- Keep a recent photo of your spouse on your phone to show staff if you need assistance finding them.
- Scope out pit stops ahead of time that are clean, accessible, and not overly crowded or noisy.
By anticipating needs, planning ahead, and focusing on comfort, you can help ensure your dementia travel experience is smooth, safe, and satisfying. With some creativity and flexibility, you and your spouse can still make meaningful memories.
